We Might Think That We Know Our Husband/Wife, But No We Don't.

When I heard the news about this one couple, who was in relationship for so long, then they got married for a couple of years, and now were no longer together, I was shocked. It proves that, long-term relationship before marriage won't guarentee a successful marriage afterall. So let me ask you again, how secure are you with your current relationship?

A very safe answer for this would be, we would never know. Today you might say that you have a loving spouse that you trust with all your heart, and the next day your spouse can be the person you hate the most. Simply because, you can't forced other people to stay faithful and honest. NO YOU CAN'T. It's not within your control. Well, maybe a little.. We can try to make them stay faithful but still, it's up to them to pick their options. We are all hopeless.. aren't we?

There's an officemate (who I don't really like sebab suka berloyar buruk) who once told me that (I don't know how could I listen to him on the first place), in marriage, the first year is the most wonderful year of all but it could be very dangerous too. Second year is when everything gets cool. Third year, that's when all the dirty ones comes out. Couple who could pass and survive the third year, there's a high possibility for a much stable relationship later on. Ok, I know that I should not trust words come out from a loyarburukers, but I do think that apa yang dia cakap tu mungkin ada betulnya juga.

Anyway, all I can say is, we as a normal human being, hamba kepadaNya, kita bole berusaha dan bertawakal. I read somewhere in a magazine last week, kenapa kita perlu tawakal? Kita bertawakal so that we won't get hurt and frustrated that much if things turned out not like what we hope for.